You want ones where the story takes precedent over the sex then (since you found Take on Me too graphic). I have not explored enough of what has been licensed to know very many titles of the kind (which include attractive males). I'd say your best bet is to actually look around for scans to read (since they include fresh releases from Japan) and buy them when they become licensed or if they already are. Hell, there could be a term for the type of hentai you're searching for, and we don't know it. I'd suggest some extended digging into the genre.