I don't think my partner Nick's taking it too far. He's expressing his view on things. You can't argue with a person's experiences. They are just telling you how they feel about the matter from their perspective. I may not completely agree on the level of it, but he has valid points. I respect his passion for it.
I could actually buy Yu being teasing with Kanji more that Yosuke. One of the ways you tell someone is teasing is from their expression. We've already established that isn't Yu's strong suit. He tends to play along with whatever the current mood is. Even encouraging Kanji to run into the girl's tent.
We saw this in last weeks episode. Though he would say he was willing to just let it be, as soon as one of the girls told him they should move forward. He was just as passionate about following their lead.
Kanji is one of the more positive interpretations of a sexually ambiguous character. He may be into guys to some degree, but he's also a tough dude who takes care of his mother and helps out little kids in need. What's not to respect about that? No matter which way he swings, Kanji's an upright dude in my book.