Let me just get my old man beard, rocking chair and shotgun for this.
I still prefer the old fashioned style of Harem where the Guy had to actually work for the affections of the girls in the show. Maybe it is just because we know about more shows now but it seems like today's shows focus more on the dude making sweet Crocodile Rock instead of developing a meaningful relationship. It is bad enough that now days we have these stories where the dude gets one girl then, oh wait time warp. Its now before the relationship.